Bringing a child into the world is a significant decision that can profoundly impact a couple's life journey. The first question that couples face is, whether to plan a baby or leave it to chance.
It is a deeply personal choice to choose a path because it depends on various factors unique to each couple. But, whatever the path the couple chooses, one thing is sure both paths come with their own set of joys and challenges.
Let's explore what we think of about planning a baby versus leaving it to chance. It might help new couples to consider the same.
When you plan a baby:Â Getting ready to welcome a new baby into your life lets couples prepare for parenthood in a purposeful and well-planned way.
Emotional Readiness: Parenting is fun and a wonderful journey but there is also a fact that the parenthood journey brings life-altering changes. Emotional preparedness and resilience are crucial. Therefore, planning for a baby gives couples time to be prepared for the change in the couple's life, it gives time to prepare mentally and emotionally to get ready for the new responsibilities and challenges.
Financial Readiness: In today's ever-changing world, financial readiness is important. Planning for a baby lets couples analyze their financial situation and make required adjustments to be ready to fulfill the child's needs. Budgeting for baby essentials and savings for the future, be it healthcare or education. Therefore, financial readiness provides a strong foundation for the entire family.
Health & Wellness: One thing that is always ignored is the health and wellness of couples this day, due to lifestyle changes, stressed working hours, unwanted addictions, and much more. Poor health of couples does impact the health of the baby. Planning for a baby allows the couple to prioritize their health and wellness. Be it maintaining a healthy lifestyle addressing any health conditions or quitting unwanted addictions. Proactively optimizing health can positively impact the overall pregnancy and fetus health.
When you live it to chance:Â Some couples truly cherish the excitement of an unexpected pregnancy and embrace the spontaneity it brings.
Unexpected Delights: An unplanned pregnancy means unexpected delights in a couple's life. Experiencing these moments can be incredibly thrilling and full of adventure as they embark on the incredible journey of parenting together, ready to discover the unexpected.
Trust & Faith: For some couples, bringing a baby into the world is more about trusting and having faith in the universe. They believe that everything happens for a reason, so the unexpected pregnancy and arrival of a baby is seen as a gift from a higher power.
Flexibility and Adaptability: Unplanned pregnancy requires couples to be flexible and adaptable to the changes. It may come with its challenges, but at the same time, it is an opportunity for personal growth, resilience, and deeper connections with each other.
Couples should openly communicate and make decisions based on their comfort, not the opinions of others, including family and friends.
The arrival of a baby, whether expected or a wonderful surprise, brings an abundance of joy and fulfillment to a couple's life.